Thursday, May 29, 2014

Finding the Phenomenal Woman Inside

I caught up with a lovely friend this week. She is an amazing woman. We met when I embarked on my first foray into Ocean Swimming with CanToo.



I struggled terribly with the dreaded Imposter Syndrome and although unaware of this she buoyed my confidence that year simply by being her lovely self - warm, encouraging and inclusive. She swam beside me and although I know she thought it was me helping her, it was really the other way round!

The following year I returned despite knowing that I was carrying even more weight both physically and psychologically than my first year. I shouldn't have put myself through the program. It wasn't being kind to myself. It was certainly not the confidence building experience of the first time. I stumbled towards the goal swim isolated from my team and although I raised my required funds, I chose to swim on my own the day of the Cole because I was so ashamed at my perceived failure.

As I stood alone in the crowd of people milling around awaiting our "wave", Lizzie stumbled upon me. We agreed to swim together. I knew that this meant Lizzie would not swim to her own pace. I knew she was forsaking a better time to stay with me. I will always be grateful for her compassion and kindness.

The day after we caught up she sent me the shots from the swim photographer. They transported me. How lost I felt. How much I was struggling. How much has happened since.

I'm not this person anymore. I'm different in so many ways. But I still have my friendship with this special person.

I am so fortunate to have people like Lizzie in my life.




2 comments:

  1. Actually it is me that is so fortunate to have you in my life you adorable plonker!
    You have shown so many of us (including I am sure the Kats and Saint Mike) courage beyond belief. Whether it is the C-word, the D-word or battling the old KGs, you have never tired and never surrendered. You are an inspiration! Literally. A literary one if nothing else – you inspired me to write me blob and you have kept me going when I have doubted my strength (as I attested in the last paragraph of http://lizziecantoo.wordpress.com/2014/01/17/girt-by-sea/ earlier this year). I am the lucky one. xx

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  2. What a lovely post.

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